Freud has never
been one of my favorite people from history; while I respect his genius in
discovering the subconscious mind, conversion, and talk therapy, I never thought
a lot of him as a person. He seemed egotistical and argumentative, dropping
associates if they disagreed with him. All images I saw were of him as an older
man, already bald, smoking a cigar. I knew nothing about his personal life. This
historical novel shows us a younger man, one who could be charming when he
wished to be. Sadly, he didn’t often wish to be.
The novel is
told from the POV of Minna Bernays, sister to Martha Bernays, Sigmund Freud’s
wife. Minna had spent her days working variously as governess or ladies
companion; when she loses her job and knows she will get no good recommendation
she goes to her sister’s house to stay for awhile. While she fears she’s a
financial burden, both the Freud’s assure her she’s not, especially as she
takes over the care of the six children for Martha, who was still recovering
from the birth of her last child. It was at this time that the intellectual Minna
became close to Sigmund, who seemed to respect and value her opinions, talking
with her in his home office late into the night- something he did not do with
is wife, who he treated as a servant. Minna becomes enamored of Sigmund, on
both mental and physical levels. With Martha either in bed in pain or busy with
errands and housework all the time, it is easy to see how an affair could start
even in these close quarters. Minna tries, unsuccessfully, to leave, but
Sigmund soon brings her back, with her sister’s blessing.
Not much is
known about the real life Minna, but in the late 19th century, women
didn’t have many choices in life. Women of Minna’s class would either marry or
become a ladies companion or a governess, those offices which place the woman
in the no-woman’s land of not being ‘good enough’ to be family but being ‘too
genteel’ to be a true servant, leaving the woman with few, if any, people to
associate freely with. Minna would have most likely have been lonely before she
came to live with the Freuds, having had neither affection nor intellectual
stimulation from her former employers. Perhaps this would have led her to fall
for the first person to ask her opinion on something other than knitting or the
ABCs? Or perhaps Sigmund was just that magnetic when he wished to charm
someone- he’d charmed many before Minna, and would go on to charm many more, as
friends, associates, and, presumably, lovers, before they disagreed with him or
he got bored. The authors state right out that there is no completely solid
proof Minna and Sigmund had a sexual relationship, but it was rumored during
their lives and in 2006 proof was found in a resort hotel register that they
had stayed there for several days as husband and wife. In those days, no upper
class person would have done that just to avoid springing for a second hotel
room!
In some ways, I
found the story wonderful. The authors evoked fin-de-siecle Vienna in sights, sounds, smells and flavors;
reading the book is an immersive experience. Minna’s life at the Freud’s feels
claustrophobic; I could feel her confusion as she tried to figure out the right
thing to do. But the book drags in places. I’m sure that the affair is
something that Minna would have agonized over, but so many words were devoted
to that agonizing that it became tedious. I think the book would have been
better had it been a bit shorter. I enjoyed the ending and their version of
what Martha might have thought about the whole thing.
Sadly, my
opinion of Sigmund Freud as a human being didn’t improve- it actually got
worse.
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